Do people prioritize different spouse qualities for sons and daughters?
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Some Pakistani studies report gender differences in preferred traits, reflecting expectations around earning, caregiving, age, appearance and family roles. The direction and size vary by study, and most available samples are regional, student-based or limited to one gender. There is no nationally representative parent survey that ranks qualities separately for sons and daughters. It is therefore reasonable to say gendered priorities exist in some settings, but not to assign a national percentage or assume every family applies the same standards. Education and urban experience may also reshape these expectations.
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Mate selection preferences among university students in Pakistan
Science International
A limited private-university study of desired spouse traits; findings cannot be generalized to all Pakistanis.View sourceEmpowering hearts and shaping destinies: unveiling the profound influence of education on women's mate selection in Pakistan…
Frontiers in Sociology
Regional mixed-methods study: 30 interviews and 500 questionnaires from educated women in Malakand. Not a national or causal estimate.Source checked:
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