Control what families can see
Weddme profiles are designed with privacy controls for public visibility, contact visibility, and interaction settings. Families should share sensitive details only when they feel comfortable.
Privacy and safety
Digital matchmaking security tips for direct family-to-family rishta search
Weddme gives families tools to control visibility, protect contact details, compare profiles carefully, and report concerns. The safest matrimonial search still depends on patient family review and personal verification.
Family safety basics
Use Weddme with clear expectations and careful verification
Before contacting a family, compare the full profile and use public discovery pages such as city-wise rishta profiles, education-wise profiles, and profession-wise profiles to understand the available proposal mix. These digital matchmaking security tips apply whether the search begins from a website, mobile app, family referral, or online marriage proposal Pakistan search.
Keep conversations respectful
A good rishta conversation should be clear, patient, and family-led. Avoid pressure, rushed decisions, or sharing private documents before trust is established.
Verify personally before meeting
Weddme provides the platform, but families must verify identity, family background, and proposal details themselves before meetings or commitments.
Report suspicious behavior
Users can report profiles or contact support when something feels wrong. Reports help moderation review harmful, misleading, or disrespectful activity.
Block profiles when needed
Families can block a profile when they do not want further contact from that user. Blocking helps keep the experience respectful and gives families more control over uncomfortable or unwanted interactions.
Turn off incoming interactions
Turn off “Allow others to interact” to stop new chat requests and expressions of interest, while choosing whom to approach yourself. Existing conversations may continue; use Block to stop messages from a particular profile.
AI-assisted photo and message checks
Weddme screens profile content, photos and messages to help identify nudity, inappropriate content and signs of misuse before publication or delivery. These checks support respectful discussions and complement reporting and team review.
A family platform, not a dating service
Parents, guardians and individuals representing their family can use text and approved photos for serious marriage discussions. Weddme does not provide in-app voice or video calling.
A structured way to be heard
Report a concern. Keep the context. Receive a decision.
Weddme connects your report to the relevant conversation, so the team can review what happened and share an official outcome with both participants.
Support inside the conversation
@weddmeFrom @weddme to a clear decision
Type @weddme
Open the conversation and type @weddme to see the available reasons. Choose one, add helpful context and submit your case.
Acknowledge the concern
Both participants receive an official notice. Participant-safety concerns may pause new messages during review; technical-support cases can leave the chat open.
Review the conversation
The Weddme team reviews the reported concern and relevant chat records. Related evidence is handled under the Privacy Policy, rather than relying only on screenshots.
Share the decision
An official update explains whether the chat resumes, stays paused or is closed. If you need clarification or have more information, contact Support with your case or conversation reference.
Review notices, pauses and decisions appear in the conversation. Read the Privacy Policy for how chat records are processed and retained. For a decision you want reconsidered, use Support to request human review with the relevant reference and context.
Practical checklist
Before a family meeting or serious commitment
- Verify identity, family background, and basic details outside the platform.
- Keep early conversations respectful and avoid emotional or financial pressure.
- Do not share money, private documents, or sensitive images with unknown people.
- Meet in a family-appropriate setting and involve trusted guardians where relevant.
- Use Weddme reporting and support channels if anything feels misleading or unsafe.
Child safety standards
Zero tolerance for child sexual abuse and exploitation
Weddme is an adults-only matrimonial service. Users must be at least 18 years old. We prohibit child sexual abuse and exploitation (CSAE), child sexual abuse material (CSAM), grooming, sextortion, trafficking, sexualisation of minors, and any content or conduct that exploits or endangers a child.
How to report a concern
In the Weddme app, open the relevant profile, select Report Profile, and choose Underage User, Inappropriate Photos, or another appropriate reason. Users may also contact our child safety team at [email protected].
How Weddme responds
We review child-safety reports and take appropriate action when we obtain actual knowledge of prohibited content or conduct. Action may include restricting or removing content, suspending or terminating accounts, preserving information where legally required, and cooperating with lawful investigations.
CSAM and legal reporting
We remove confirmed CSAM and maintain a process to report it to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children or the relevant regional authority, as required by applicable law. Anyone who believes a child is in immediate danger should contact local emergency services or law enforcement first.
Child safety point of contact
Google Play, law-enforcement agencies, child-safety organisations, parents, guardians, and users may contact Weddme at [email protected] about potential CSAE or CSAM on the platform.
Safety FAQ
Important answers for families
Does Weddme verify every user identity?
No. Weddme does not claim to verify every user identity. Families should always verify personally before meeting, sharing sensitive information, or making a decision.
Are phone numbers public on Weddme?
Contact details are protected by privacy settings and are not meant to be shown in public rishta search pages. Families control what they share during the process.
What should I do if a profile seems suspicious?
Use Block to stop unwanted contact and Report Profile to raise a concern. To request review of an in-app conversation, type @weddme, select the reason and submit a case. Contact Support for account-specific help or additional context.
Can I stop new messages and interest on my profile?
Yes. Turn off “Allow others to interact” in your profile settings to prevent new chat requests and expressions of interest. You can still choose whom to approach. This is different from blocking: existing conversations may continue, so use Block when you want to stop messages from a particular profile.
Does Weddme check photos before they are shared?
Yes. Weddme uses AI-assisted photo screening to detect nudity, inappropriate content and inconsistent or suspicious images, helping reduce fake-photo misuse before approved photos are displayed or shared. Photo screening supports safer sharing; families should still verify important identity and proposal details independently.
How does Weddme encourage respectful messages?
Weddme checks messages using automated moderation before delivery to help filter abusive, sexual, spam-like or otherwise inappropriate content. Safety concerns may also receive limited staff review. If a conversation makes you uncomfortable, you can block the profile or type @weddme to request a review.
How do I open a case with Weddme from a chat?
Type @weddme in the conversation to see the available review reasons. Select the reason, add relevant details and submit the case. The team can then review the concern alongside the conversation. You can also report a profile or open a Support ticket for account-specific help.
What happens after I ask Weddme to review a conversation?
Both participants receive an official review notice. A participant-safety report may pause new messages while Weddme reviews the chat; a technical-support case can leave it open. The team shares an official decision in the conversation, explaining whether it resumes, remains paused or is closed.
Do I need screenshots to report an in-app conversation?
Not as the only evidence. A chat-review case is linked to the Weddme conversation, and relevant records are retained under the Privacy Policy for review. Include dates and useful context. Screenshots can help explain events outside Weddme, but avoid uploading unnecessary private information.
Can I appeal a case decision or provide more information?
Yes. Contact Weddme through a Support ticket to request human review, include your case or conversation reference, and explain the decision or additional information you want the team to consider. Relevant context helps the team review your concern fairly, as described in the Privacy Policy.
Does Weddme offer voice or video calling?
No. Weddme is a family-led matrimonial platform, not a dating service. In-app conversations use text and approved photos; voice and video calling are not provided. Families can discuss suitable proposals thoughtfully and decide when they are comfortable taking the next step.
What does the Weddme Representative in chat do?
The visible Weddme Representative provides official safety notices, review updates and decisions to both participants. Type @weddme when you want to raise a concern. Its presence does not mean a staff member is watching every conversation live; automated checks and limited manual review are described in the Privacy Policy.