Wedding Gifts and Favours

Wedding Favours and Mithai Box Ideas Guests Will Love, With Bulk Order Tips

When families give mithai and favours, mithai box and favour ideas, real price ranges from Weddme listings, and tips for ordering in bulk and keeping sweets fresh.

Pakistani mithai and ribbon-tied wedding favour boxes arranged on a table.

Sharing sweets is part of every happy moment in a Pakistani family. Mithai is distributed when a rishta is agreed, after the nikkah and at the wedding itself, and many families now give guests a small favour to take home. Weddme lists 912 gifts and favours businesses, from mithai shops to custom favour makers. This guide shares ideas for mithai boxes and favours, real price ranges, and tips for ordering in bulk.

When families give mithai and favours

MomentWhat families usually give
Rishta agreed or engagementMithai boxes for close family and neighbours
MehndiSmall favours, sweets or colourful bangles
NikkahChuhare, dry dates and mithai
Barat and walimaFavour boxes for guests at the tables or the exit
After the weddingMithai for neighbours and colleagues

Mithai box ideas

  • Classic assorted mithai: gulab jamun, barfi, laddu and kalakand in one box.
  • Dry fruit boxes: almonds, pistachios and dates, which last longer than fresh mithai.
  • Chocolate and mithai mix: popular with younger guests.
  • Baklava and premium sweets: a modern, elegant choice for close family.
  • Small single serve boxes: neat, easy to carry and less waste.

Prices on Weddme

Sweet shops and favour makers on Weddme publish 100 priced mithai and sweet boxes. Half of them start between PKR 1,900 and PKR 3,600, depending on size and contents.

Across all gifts and favours, including hampers, trays and custom favours, half of the 365 published prices fall between PKR 2,000 and PKR 5,500.

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Favour ideas guests love

  • Small boxes of dry fruit or chocolates with the couple's initials
  • Mini jars of honey, jam or achar from a family recipe
  • Scented candles or attar bottles
  • Bangles or small mehndi cones for the mehndi guests
  • Small plants or seed packets for an eco friendly touch

Keep favours light and useful. Guests remember a thoughtful small gift more than a heavy one they cannot carry home easily.

Ordering in bulk

StepWhat to do
CountDecide how many boxes for each event and for distribution
TasteTry a sample box before placing a large order
QuoteAsk for a bulk price, packing cost and delivery charge in writing
TimingAgree the delivery date and time, close to the event for fresh mithai
PackingConfirm box size, ribbon, labels and any printed message
CheckCount and check a few boxes on delivery

Freshness and storage

Fresh milk based mithai lasts only a few days, while dry fruit, baklava and chocolates last longer. Ask the shop about shelf life for each item. Store boxes in a cool, dry place away from sunlight. In hot weather, avoid leaving boxes in cars or near kitchens.

Personal touches

A small printed tag with the couple's names and the date turns a simple box into a keepsake. Some families add a short thank you note or a prayer. Ask the shop if they can print tags, or order them from your card maker so they match the wedding card.

Questions to ask the shop

  • What is the price per box for our quantity, including packing?
  • Can you deliver to the venue, and at what time?
  • How long will the mithai stay fresh?
  • Can we change quantities after ordering, and until when?
  • What happens if some boxes are damaged on delivery?

Distributing mithai to neighbours and colleagues

After the nikkah or the wedding, many families send mithai to neighbours, colleagues and friends who could not attend. Plan this list along with the guest list, so the order covers both. Smaller boxes work well for colleagues, while neighbours and close family often receive larger boxes. Ask the shop for a separate delivery for these boxes a day or two after the wedding, when the family has time to hand them out.

Budget tips

  • Choose one main item, such as a good mithai box, instead of several small extras.
  • Order slightly fewer favours than guests, since not every guest takes one.
  • Pick dry fruit or baklava for items you must prepare early.
  • Ask about bulk discounts and delivery charges before choosing a shop.
  • Reuse your wedding colours on ribbons and tags instead of paying for printed boxes.

Hygiene and quality

Buy from shops with a clean kitchen and good reviews, and check that boxes are sealed. Ask whether they use pure ghee or another fat, if that matters to your family. Taste a box from the actual batch on delivery day, so you know what your guests will receive.

Favours for children

Children love small treats, and a few cheerful packs of sweets, colouring sets or small toys keep them happy during long events. These cost little but parents notice the thought. Keep them in a separate basket near the family tables.

Gifts for the bride and groom's families

Alongside guest favours, families often exchange gifts at the mehndi, barat and walima: clothes, sweets, dry fruit trays and decorated baskets. These trays are usually arranged with care and shown to guests. Gift and favour businesses on Weddme often prepare these trays and hampers too, so you can order them from the same shop as your mithai boxes. Plan these gifts together with your favours list to keep the budget clear and avoid ordering the same items twice.

Order checklist

  • Final quantity for each event and for distribution
  • Contents of each box and any dietary notes
  • Packing, ribbons and printed tags
  • Delivery date, time and address
  • Advance paid, balance due and receipts

Where to place favours at the venue

Favours can sit on each table, at the exit with a family member handing them out, or on a decorated table near the stage. Handing them out at the exit reduces waste, because each family takes one as they leave. Ask the hall where you can set up a small favour table, and assign two relatives to manage it so boxes are not taken in bulk early in the evening.

Plan the rest

If you plan boxed wedding cards with sweets, see our guide to wedding card designs and prices. Compare gifts and favours in Lahore and Karachi, and see our catering menu guide for dessert ideas.

Celebrating a rishta soon? Weddme connects families directly. Browse rishta profiles in Hyderabad, Sialkot or profiles with a professional degree.

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Questions

Helpful answers from this guide

When do families give mithai at weddings?

When a rishta is agreed, at the nikkah, at the barat and walima, and to neighbours and colleagues after the wedding.

How long does mithai stay fresh?

Fresh milk based mithai lasts only a few days. Dry fruit, baklava and chocolates last longer. Ask the shop about shelf life.

How should we order mithai boxes in bulk?

Decide quantities per event, taste a sample, get a written bulk quote with packing and delivery, and agree a delivery time close to the event.

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