Family & Society

How much influence do parents have over spouse selection in Pakistan?

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Parental influence is substantial but cannot be reduced to one national arranged-marriage percentage. In the 2017–18 Pakistan DHS, 80.5% of ever-married women reported having a say in choosing their husband; the share was 84.7% in urban areas and 78.1% in rural areas. Having a say does not mean choosing without parents, and not having the final decision does not reveal whether coercion occurred. The figures show overlapping individual and family roles rather than a simple divide between self-choice and parent-choice marriages.

80.5%ever-married women reporting a say in husband selection, PDHS 2017–18
Evidence

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National Survey · 2019

Pakistan Demographic and Health Survey 2017–18

National Institute of Population Studies and The DHS Program

National survey evidence for marriage timing, women, households and health indicators.View source
Academic Research · 2011

Marriage decision-making and married youth in Pakistan

Population Council research archived by PubMed Central

Research on marriage timing, prior acquaintance and decision-making among young married Pakistanis.View source
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