What qualities do Pakistanis report considering when choosing a spouse?
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Pakistani studies commonly identify religion, character, education, family background, financial stability, physical attraction and interpersonal compatibility, but no national survey ranks these qualities for the whole population. One private-university study examined 60 traits and found high importance for qualities including faithfulness and neatness, while a Malakand study of 500 educated women emphasized compatibility and shared values alongside personal agency. These are sample-specific findings. Priorities vary by gender, age, education, family role, region and whether respondents describe ideals or actual decisions.
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Mate selection preferences among university students in Pakistan
Science International
A limited private-university study of desired spouse traits; findings cannot be generalized to all Pakistanis.View sourceEmpowering hearts and shaping destinies: unveiling the profound influence of education on women's mate selection in Pakistan…
Frontiers in Sociology
Regional mixed-methods study: 30 interviews and 500 questionnaires from educated women in Malakand. Not a national or causal estimate.Source checked:
View sourcePakistan Demographic and Health Survey 2017–18
National Institute of Population Studies and The DHS Program
National survey evidence for marriage timing, women, households and health indicators.View source