How should families discuss money and financial expectations before marriage?
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Money discussions should be practical and respectful. Families should avoid making income the only measure of a person, but they should still clarify expectations before commitments.
Important topics include living costs, support for parents, debt, savings habits, work plans, wedding expenses and whether the couple will live independently or with family.
If a proposal involves pressure for money, gifts or urgent transfers, treat it as a safety concern and verify before proceeding.
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