Are younger Pakistanis becoming more involved in choosing their own spouses?
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Regional and youth studies suggest that education, communication technology and longer premarital interaction can increase young adults’ participation in spouse choice, but Pakistan lacks a consistent national time series measuring self-choice with the same question. The 2017–18 DHS found that younger ever-married women were generally more likely than older cohorts to report a say, yet age differences can reflect education, residence and which marriages have already occurred. The evidence supports gradual negotiation of greater agency in some groups, not a claim that family-arranged matching is disappearing nationwide.
Sources used
Pakistan Demographic and Health Survey 2017–18
National Institute of Population Studies and The DHS Program
National survey evidence for marriage timing, women, households and health indicators.View sourceMarriage decision making, spousal communication, and reproductive health among married youth in Pakistan
Global Health Action
Published 2011. Analyses 1,803 married women aged 15–24 from a 2001–02 survey; historical associations, not a current survey of spouse-selection choices.Source checked:
View sourceEmpowering hearts and shaping destinies: unveiling the profound influence of education on women's mate selection in Pakistan…
Frontiers in Sociology
Regional mixed-methods study: 30 interviews and 500 questionnaires from educated women in Malakand. Not a national or causal estimate.Source checked:
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