How can families avoid treating a learning difference as proof that an adult cannot choose a spouse?
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Do not infer inability to choose a spouse from a learning-difference label; support the adult's understanding and direct participation.
Use accessible explanations and the person's preferred communication method, allowing time without relatives answering automatically. A genuine concern about capacity or coercion needs an appropriate individual professional assessment and relevant legal advice, not a family stereotype. Assistance should make a decision more understandable and voluntary. It should not silently transfer the choice to whoever manages the meeting or account.
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Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities: Article 23
United Nations
Free and full consent, family rights and non-discrimination principles. Individual capacity or local legal questions require appropriate assessment.Source checked:
View sourceADA Requirements: Effective Communication
US Department of Justice
Person-led communication support and appropriate aids. No assumption that one interpreter or method suits every person.Source checked:
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